{"id":19334,"date":"2024-11-27T22:47:27","date_gmt":"2024-11-27T22:47:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gpt.m2mbeta.com\/?p=19334"},"modified":"2024-11-27T22:47:27","modified_gmt":"2024-11-27T22:47:27","slug":"mum-told-partner-im-sick-of-you-hitting-me-before-suicide-manslaughter-trial-hears","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gpt.m2mbeta.com\/?p=19334","title":{"rendered":"Mum told partner &#039;I&#039;m sick of you hitting me&#039; before suicide, manslaughter trial hears"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"\">\n<figure>\n<div data-component=\"image-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 ejjhCR\">\n<div data-testid=\"hero-image\" class=\"sc-a34861b-1 jxzoZC\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/bbcx\/grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-a34861b-0 cOpVbP hide-when-no-script\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" sizes=\"(min-width: 1280px) 50vw, (min-width: 1008px) 66vw, 96vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/6dc0\/live\/76aed060-acde-11ef-92c5-85d8a8f7d550.jpg.webp 240w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/6dc0\/live\/76aed060-acde-11ef-92c5-85d8a8f7d550.jpg.webp 320w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/6dc0\/live\/76aed060-acde-11ef-92c5-85d8a8f7d550.jpg.webp 480w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/640\/cpsprodpb\/6dc0\/live\/76aed060-acde-11ef-92c5-85d8a8f7d550.jpg.webp 640w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/6dc0\/live\/76aed060-acde-11ef-92c5-85d8a8f7d550.jpg.webp 800w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1024\/cpsprodpb\/6dc0\/live\/76aed060-acde-11ef-92c5-85d8a8f7d550.jpg.webp 1024w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1536\/cpsprodpb\/6dc0\/live\/76aed060-acde-11ef-92c5-85d8a8f7d550.jpg.webp 1536w\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/6dc0\/live\/76aed060-acde-11ef-92c5-85d8a8f7d550.jpg.webp\" alt=\"Lancashire Police Kiena Dawes with long black hair and silver hoop earrings smiling on a beach\" class=\"sc-a34861b-0 efFcac\"\/><span class=\"sc-a34861b-2 fxQYxK\">Lancashire Police<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><figcaption class=\"sc-8353772e-0 cvNhQw\">Kiena Dawes, 23, died in July 2022<!-- --><\/figcaption><\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 dlWCEZ\">\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">A vulnerable mother who took her own life had sent messages to her partner saying: &#8220;I&#8217;m sick of you hitting me.&#8221;<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Kiena Dawes, 23, died on a railway line in July 2022 after allegedly suffering years of abuse by partner Ryan Wellings, who is being tried for her manslaughter.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Preston Crown Court was told Mr Wellings had Ms Dawes&#8217; name tattooed on his neck within a week of meeting her and had been violent towards the Fleetwood mother-of-one during the relationship.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Mr Wellings, 30, of Bispham, Lancashire, denies manslaughter, assault, and coercive and controlling behaviour.<!-- --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><h2 class=\"sc-518485e5-0 kRvAla\">Proposal<!-- --><\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 dlWCEZ\">\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Prosecutors have told the jury of seven women and five men that Mr Wellings used violence to &#8220;grind&#8221; down Ms Dawes such that she took her own life.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">On the second day of the trial, Ms Dawes\u2019s best friend, Kacie Valentine, was asked about what her friend had told her about her relationship with Mr Wellings.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Ms Valentine said she felt it &#8220;weird&#8221; that Mr Wellings had got a tattoo of Ms Dawes&#8217; name on his neck so soon after they met.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">The court heard Ms Valentine later discovered the hairdresser had fallen out with Mr Wellings and moved to live with a friend in Dorset and was &#8220;back to her normal self&#8221;.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">But she then received a photo from Ms Dawes showing a ring on her finger and discovered Mr Wellings had proposed to her on a beach with a banner saying, &#8220;Will you marry me?&#8221; <!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">She had said yes to the proposal, the jury heard.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Ms Valentine told the court on about five occasions Ms Dawes told her Mr Wellings had been violent towards her, leaving her with injuries.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">These included a cut on her leg, bruises to her ribs and a black eye, she said.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Ms Valentine said Ms Dawes had told her that when Mr Wellings would attack her, he would say to her: &#8220;Hitting you is like hitting a man.&#8221;<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Ms Valentine said sometimes her friend would come and stay at her house because Mr Wellings would &#8220;binge on drink and cocaine&#8221;.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">The jury was shown messages from Ms Dawes to Mr Wellings which read: &#8220;Coke is what\u2019s gone wrong. I can\u2019t bring a baby up like that. I told you 100 times not to buy any more.&#8221;<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Ms Dawes told Mr Wellings the drugs made him &#8220;aggressive&#8221; but his message response read: &#8220;Come on. Sorry xx&#8221;.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Ms Dawes replied: &#8220;No, I\u2019m sick of you hitting me.&#8221;<!-- --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><h2 class=\"sc-518485e5-0 kRvAla\">&#8216;Almost universally loved&#8217;<!-- --><\/h2>\n<\/p>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-18fde0d6-0 dlWCEZ\">\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Earlier, John Jones KC, defending Mr Wellings, told the jury whatever the difficulties in their relationship they were not the reason Ms Dawes chose to kill herself.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">This, he said, was a decision made because of &#8220;multiple factors&#8221;.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">He said: &#8220;That relationship had been loving, affectionate and otherwise good, but at times both difficult and stormy.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;It is not part of my defence to raise any adverse comment or criticism against anyone.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;Nothing I say is intended to adversely trespass on the memory of a young woman who apparently was almost universally loved and regarded with affection.&#8221;<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">Mr Jones added: &#8220;Kiena Dawes was a very troubled young lady. <!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">&#8220;The evidence will reveal she had a long, troubled psychiatric history and had made several, some might say, determined attempts [to kill herself] in the past.&#8221;<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\">The trial continues.<!-- --><\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-eb7bd5f6-0 fYAfXe\"><i id=\"additional-reporting-by-pa\" class=\"sc-7dcfb11b-0 kKcaog\">Additional reporting by PA<!-- --><\/i><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<hr style=\"border-top: 2px solid #ccc; margin-top: 20px;\">\n<p><em>Source: <\/em> <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/news\/articles\/cx2l86r6dnjo\">www.bbc.com\u2026<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lancashire Police Kiena Dawes, 23, died in July 2022 A vulnerable mother who took her own life had sent messages to her partner saying: &#8220;I&#8217;m sick of you hitting me.&#8221; Kiena Dawes, 23, died on a railway line in July 2022 after allegedly suffering years of abuse by partner Ryan Wellings, who is being tried [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19334","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gpt.m2mbeta.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19334","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gpt.m2mbeta.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gpt.m2mbeta.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gpt.m2mbeta.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gpt.m2mbeta.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=19334"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gpt.m2mbeta.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19334\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gpt.m2mbeta.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=19334"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gpt.m2mbeta.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=19334"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gpt.m2mbeta.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=19334"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}